Just finished reading A New Pair of Glasses by Chuck C, he says non alcholics never even ask themselves could maybe they be one. The moment that thought comes into our head we have a problem. The next step is the hardest and that is admitting we have a problem. As has been said when we admit the problem we then have to do something about it which means not drinking and that is a scary thought for any alcoholic. I have now been sober for over 13 months, just joined this site today and I am here only because of One Day at a Time.