Well, um, he's been out of my house for three weeks and I am meeting with a lawyer today, that's what.
That's interesting though ... some people make it sound like they are as miserable in their addictions as they are making us, and others make it sound like they are having a blast the entire time without ever feeling bad about it.
Suffice to say, your summary of the situation makes me feel much better about the appointment with the divorce attorney today.