I'm so in love with him otherwise I wouldn't care less about him n would just leave him to take his own path.
If you love him that much you should allow him to fix himself. If adults do everything for their children, they never learn to do it for themselves. In not letting him take his own path you are trying to force him to take YOUR path. that is control - not love.
I know this because I am also trying to kick the control habit. It's hard.