Originally Posted by
skope 
I understand we never had it, but we spoke of it all the time. And it wouldnt even be me who would bring it up all the time. So I'm sure he must've shared that fantasy with me? Maybe not, or maybe he desp wanted to feel it, but couldn't really.
Most of the alcoholics I've known were all talk and no action. My husband and I shared a lot of dreams during our 20 years together. But, you know what? I was the only one taking ACTION toward those dreams.
Speaking of wanting something is easy. Actually doing what it takes to get there is what matters. What has he actually DONE to move toward that fantasy life you two have spoken about?
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