From disgrace to Grace. Way to go.
Hi Grace,
First of all; I am so happy your changed your moniker. Grace is much better and a state of consciousness I'm convinced you will find.
Second; If you knew how many times I stopped and started you would be shocked.
The art I feel is in knowing where you want to go and have compassion with yourself if you don't get there all at once. I don't know you but most people I know who become addicted have a tendency to be very harsh and demanding perfection of themselves and others. Myself being a good example.
Forgiveness and focus on the final outcome are the key.
Don't wait for your partner to be supportive but be supportive of yourself.
You damaged relationships and they need to mend in their own good time but you can help that by mending the most important relationship you will ever have in this world; the one with yourself and repairing that one should be your main focus.
You go girl, you're making good progress by the sounds of it don't stop with that.