Shelly,
If I were going to a barbeque tonight I would ravenously drink CocaCola. Not diet, personally. I've found sugary drinks to be like wearing the patch while trying to quit smoking. You still [I]want[I] to smoke but the sharp edge is dulled. It worked great for me last night. I had a wicked craving, almost enough to give in. After even a few sips of a cran-raspberry juice mixed with 7-Up it really took the edge off.
Other times I've shoved a huge York Peppermint Patty in my mouth. Do any and [I]everything[I] to lessen the craving.