Originally Posted by
iwantcontrol 
I dont want to keep berating him for drinking, but i dont want to ignore it and pretend all is fine either.
He is who he is. What is right in front of you is reality. This is YOUR problem, not HIS. You want to change him into someone you want to be with. You do not want to be with him AS HE IS. Maybe it's time to look at YOUR problem instead of HIS.
YOU have a problem with who he is. HE is just being who he wants to be....
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