Originally Posted by
SoloMio 
What would you guys do? Am I still being too enabling?
It's been mentioned here before and I have my own I'm still paying off... "Stupid Tax".
I had to dip into my sons college savings to pay for a lawyer as well as take out a large equity line to write a settlement check. I'll be making monthly payments on my stupid tax until I sell my home. It's all part of the price I have to pay for the choices I made.
IMO you're in damage control mode right now. I would do everything possible to separate all the finances you can then get out of that marriage with the least amount of stupid tax as possible.
And yes, you're enabling. Make it stop.