Often times finding our way around in recovery involves answering questions with questions.... not everything is what it seems. I saw intention's question as one to provoke thought, but as is so often true in an internet forum, it provoked something else.
Remember DR we have all been through early recovery, it sucks, we know it as only another who's been through it can. We help our own recovery when we (try to) help others. That's how it works...
But inquiring minds want to know.... What do you see yourself doing? When I left my party that I described above it wasn't because I thought I would drink and it wasn't on toronto68's list. It was self pity, isolation and what could have been seen by others as being rude.
Mark