it really upsets me when I read that "you won't recover just through abstinence."
I understand where you're coming from and agree that such posts are a little much for
someone just getting sober. (For those already working the program, I don't see a problem with it). I think it's just a matter of sensitivity, but I'm probably overly sensitive anyway! I just know that when I first came here I was scared and suffering, and I needed encouragement and understanding (which I got a ton of!).
I'm not currently attending AA but have been to hundreds of meetings in the past. I use some of the tools of AA and not others. The basics of AA are the foundation for most recovery programs: Admit we have a problem, can't fix it alone, and reach out for help. Daily communication with other alcoholics in sobriety is necessary for me, and SR works beautifully for that!!