Just say what you want, its a forum...as long as people share on their real life experiences its all gold! It would kind of suck a bit here if all everyone did was say 'You can do it, keep on trying' whilst the poor sods relapsing keep on doing the same thing over and over again...i know i was one of them all you have to do is check my posts early to middle last year...and yeah i was totally offended by those wankers at AA telling me i was dry when i didnt drink for 5 months...but i couldnt beat them so i joined them and what they promised came true...whatever floats your boat i guess!