Us Codies
Just my opinion, but I've found in my own life, that when things AREN'T crazy, hectic, and I'm trying to FIX the world for everyone, it feels "weird". Normal is not my style.
I'm finding thru Nar-anon/Ala-non, that I can't fix any of the craziness involved with drinking and drugs by a loved one. I have to LEARN to live without the craziness.
I think no one in active addiction can truly give their heart to anyone, maybe bc they are not in total control of themselves.
I wish you much love and wisdom in your choices.
From the Heart,
Kim