Originally Posted by
Pagekeeper 
Do you have a sponsor?
This is the type of situation I bring to my sponsor. I don't always know what the next right thing to do is, and my sponsor can help me figure that out.
Of course, if you have a good sponsor, they may want to figure out how YOU are being selfish, dishonest, and self-seeking in this situation.
Why is it so popular to find fault in ourselves? We dont need to accept unacceptable behavior just because we used to drink.
ps. good or bad, Sponsers are drunks too....