Wondering if anyone has any advice on how to get my husband to see that getting angry and throwing out threats that you aren't likely to follow up on is not conducive to our goal here.....ie I'll call the cops and have you removed..get a restraining order, etc..even threatening physical violence against AS.
This stuff never gets anybody anywhere and it upsets me to no end, which really messes with my 'serenity now' mantra.... I've been trying to get H to leave this up to me and just have my back on the boundaries I set, etc., but he isn't famous for having a calm temperment. I for sure don't want H to think I am defending AS, but really....we are all grown-ups (well most of us) and there is no need for yelling and threatening and screaming like a mad person..