sometimes i think the calmness when u feel when u make a decision like that is your higher power letting you know u r on the right track. Had to let my AD go out on her own-she's only 18..but will not do one more thing to help her live this way, will do anything to help her get better. I will no longer contribute to the problem. She's not happy about it, but actually gets it on some level. Stick 2 ur guns!