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Jenny1232 YES! He ALWAYS plays the wounded, misunderstood victim. How he always tries so damn hard, and everyone fails him. Now, I'm walking away from him. He literally, accepts NO responsibility for any of his wrong-doings. He doesn't even SEE what I'm saying. He twists my words up, and spits them out, putting me on the offensive, making me out to be the bad one. Then, attention is diverted off of him, onto to me.. And I'm left thinking, "what the hell just happened" Is this really my fault" "Maybe he's right, I'm just too uptight, he is a GOOD boyfriend"
I could have written this verbatim
It seems to be a pattern with denial. You can't beat it unless there is a HUGE spiritual awakening on their part