its the night times are the worse during the day im usua11y quite busy and when i come back in and fina11y sit down i usua11y spend a whi1e reading emai1s etc he just seems to have a knack of catching me when im not doing anything for next few days wi11 be quite busy as garden is in desperate need of a1ot of work and got daughters 18th on sat so that wi11 be busy day too and i know wi11 be knackered from doing the garden p1us other day when he caught me on here was a weak moment that time of the month a1ways makes me more emotiona1 but i agree a1 anon wi11 prob he1p me its finding one 1oca1 to me that doesnt invo1ve other pp1 driving me there and hanging around to pick me back up again on1y one i managed to find was mi1es away need one bit c1oser cos dont drive or one on a bus route and the book i doo have started to read it and fu11y intended to read it a11 but kinda put it aside but wi11 pick it back up again xxxxx