Originally Posted by
hello-kitty 
huh? I'm not sure why you think my grapes are sour. In my book, it's unacceptable to make plans and then not follow through. So any chance the guy had in having a relationship with me, and he's made it perfectly clear that is what he is after, is gone.
I don't want to go out with him anymore. He keeps calling. I thought someone might have a suggestion on how I could break that to him without insulting him. I guess it doesn't matter.
Enjoy your grapes. ;-)
I am sorry for not being clearer.
He had his chance which I infer meant you had some sort of interest in him and gave him that chance. He blew it when he did not follow through. It sounded like you were rationalizing somewhat, that you do not have time and were not really interested i.e. the grapes and all.
Regardless, he did not do what he said he was going to do, when he said he would do it. It's a turn off for you. You owe him nothing.
It's a chick ( or is that a codie?) thing, that we gotta be nice/ gracious about everything.
That you recognize a pattern is progress.