It is appalling. What you've said.. my friends have said before. So that is what i mean with pease dont get frustrated with me, i need to be more pro active in my own personal life and im sure he will slowly fade away. I will join a gym and perhaps look at some evening classes.
he has texted saying things like he feels like disappearing, he's lost and he's worthless. and has admitted that he's drunk and that he can't stop.
I don't know what to say back anymore. I thought he was doing so well.