Originally Posted by
Losingmylove103 
Hammer~ If I bring up things it just causes arguements so it seems if I only talk about the present and the future things go so much better. Maybe its me not being realistic I dunno
My apologies for not being clearer.
What I meant and could have worded otherwise...
I didn't mean to bring it up
to him... (
for me) not bringing it up (
remembering... for myself) was my way of remaining in denial. In essence... it's about us... not them. I wouldn't knowingly advocate anyone to engage in an argument.
Sorry for the confusion.