Originally Posted by
anvilhead 
it's Fentanyl......and it's very dangerous.
Indeed it is. I spent a year as a personal care assistant for an elderly couple. The wife was over-medicated to begin with, in my opinion.
Her physician put her on the Fentanyl patches, and her behavior changed.
She got to the point that she was obsessed about the days that patch got changed out (I helped her bathe/get dressed every morning).
She was 84 years old at the time.
Now that we've heard about your AH and what's going on with him, did you find any time at all to focus on yourself and start the healing process?
You're stuck in a rut spinning your wheels with him.
Been there, done that, got that t-shirt myself.
It was a miserable way to live.