Unfortunately, I cannot file for divorce unless we are separated for 12 months. And, I asked the attorney about a separation agreement and she said unless he's willing to enter into one that's not going to be of no use. I'd be better off if he were abusive (not that I want that) because it would be easier to force the issue. Even if I did, I'd likely have to support him - and I'll take the current situation any day over having to pay him alimony.