If it has gone on for years, and is going on now, it IS continuing.
What difference is there in him being this way for many past yesterdays, being it now and the same tomorrow?
How many of these same awful, alco filled tomorrows do you go thru, your kids go thru?
How much more abuse, blame, name calling, and general drunken cr*p do you and your family need to take, before you put him where he belongs...out the door?
For what reason are you enduring all the trauma?
Give him the boot, and you and the children get a real life.
Your new son deserves better than an upset mum and a drunken, abusive dad.
Always in my prayers, Mental.
God bless