Even though this isnt my thread, I just wanted to thank EVERYONE for their shares. Since I was the crazy wife rejected by the A and replaced now this gave me so much comfort. I have guilt about how angry I was but this helps so much knowing it happens to a lot of us. And what little contact we have he always refers to me as being crazy and it hurst me. Too bad my AH couldnt stick with his recovery and believe in our marriage and believe in me. He is missing out on a good thing now that I am in recovery..I hope that doesnt sound conceited. I meant it funny but truthfully. BIG hugs to all of you for making the beginning of a scary weekend for me bearable.
Lulu