Thumper,
YES. That is exactly how I feel. I just don't feel like it's right to eat together, or have him buy the family dinner, or I clean the house he works on the yard....it does seem to me like we should be working on "seperating" not working together. We even went bowling together on Saturday. We bowl on a family league once a month, May is the last month, so we thought what the heck, it's only 2 more months. This just doesn't seem normal to me..at all. He does make comments about staying, like when i say that door needs a new hinge, he says "well, I know how to do that, you might wanna consider keeping me around, I am pretty handy" and then laughs and assures me he is totally kidding. He seems very happy and relaxed without my head up hs butt all the time...
But I want to work more on the "seperating" part of the divorce....Of course it is good for the kids I guess. They still get both of their parents together for awhile longer.