Originally Posted by
kittykitty 
Man, you would think that the words NO CONTACT would make sense. I described it in detail to him... no phone calls, no emails, no showing up at my house when you feel like it.
He pulled in and non -chalantly got out of the car today, just happened to be the exact same time I come home from work every afternoon to let my dog out. Acted like everything was fine, asking me if he could take Missy (the dog) to the woods for a walk, trying to start a conversation.
I finally looked at him and said, "what are you doing here???"
They just don't get it.
They get it. Mine would do the same thing. He'd drink, I'd say, "don't contact me" and he'd call and email and leave really cheerful messages as if nothing happened, no big deal, just another day (until I finally blocked him). It's like they think if they pretend nothing happened and everything's fine, we'll just pretend too, or forget? It's insulting really, and infuriating! I feel your pain.