I think you have a heart of gold, and your daughter is one lucky girl.
That said, maybe send this stuff since it's already made, but give some thought to whether this is helping her or keeping her from finding her own way in life.
The hardest lessons for me to learn with my son was to let go and let him make his own mistakes, let him find his own way and learn to survive in the world without his mama taking care of everything. I was robbing him of lessons he needed to learn about taking care of himself.
Hugs