bluebelle

We recently lost two pets within a short period of time. One of them was mainly mine, the others was mainly the RABF's. We have been very sad, and it has been a hard adjustment for both of us. I have adopted one pet, but want to go ahead and adopt another one. I know that I can't replace the other pets, there is no way that is possible. I am just so lonely, and the house still seems so quiet. We have the space, money, etc. for a third pet. The shelters are exploding with pets needing homes. I just can't seem to convince RABF that we are ready for another pet. He says he is not ready. He has too much going on with new job. He says he still has pain over the loss of his pet, and that he will know when he is ready.

I understand his feelings. However, I have my own feelings. There is no way to compromise on this because either we get a new pet or we don't. He isn't saying that he doesn't ever want a new pet, just that he wants to wait. It could be weeks or months. I am just so sad. Maybe, I need to work more on patience, and work more on grieving. However, I feel that with so many homeless pets, it is a shame for us to have room for one (and we are wonderful pet parents). The knew one would be well taken care of for life, and would have everything he/she needs.

Any advice?