The Loved Ones In Prison thread was my life-line for several years. It started long before 11/06, Cindi. Remember the site crashed, and about 2 years of posts were lost and we had to start another thread.....I think the second incarnation was 11/06.
I ended up divorced and considerably happier. XAH did his 2 years of rehab and seems to be doing okay......I don't look too closely. Would it have turned out the same if I had stayed with him? I don't know. I don't think so.
I often wonder about Dakota and young Sadness. They both gave me important perspectives from other sides of the problem.
I made a lot of friends on that thread, too. It was priceless to me.
Babs