Yes, I was being serious. I learned several years ago that sarcasm isn't exactly the most effective way to communicate.
OK, so you held up your end of the deal and he didn't give a rats ass because of addiction, ripping the blinders off your eyes again. The big question is will you allow them to stay off this time?
cessy, I hope you'll come to understand the difference between humiliation and humility. When I humbly came to accept that I had no control over others, I stopped humiliating myself and allowing it from others. I hope that day comes soon for YOUR well being.