Hey Ded!
Its good to see that another one has got an intention to get rid of this deathly habit. I have read all of your replies above and what i can tell you from your words is that you are more than willing to get rid of this habit and that is the first and the most important step in this regard. (Believe me as i have suffered through this).
Love your wife and love your pets and above all love your life for them and soon you will get all the power to face it and wipe it away
