Hi Dev, Thers times when we all feel theres nowhere to go ...put drugs and alcohol into that equation and its really got to be confusing to someone thats alone. Your gd made another mistake but lets hope its maybe one of her last. I wish you luck with the 2 year old but I love my grandbabies to death and know that you will have plenty of smiles along the way. You and your hubby are good people to step in and give this child a safe, happy enviorment to grow in. Hugs and smiles, Bonnie