Originally Posted by
aguyintx 
My question is this; I usually have one drink each day (never more) when I get home, to unwind. Am I contributing to my wife's alcoholism?? And, to be honest with you and myself, do I have a problem with alcohol that makes me want that 'one' drink every day?
Yes and No!
Don't expect your wife to listen to you if you are talking one thing with your words and doing another actions. I might be a good idea to refrain from drinking till she gets some recovery under her belt.
I can't see where you yourself have a problem with alcohol but you might want to pursue recovery yourself or get involved with Al-anon to learn more about the disease. Also try:
Friends and Family of Alcoholics - SoberRecovery : Alcoholism Drug Addiction Help and Information