Hmmm I know my hubby does it and I dont like it. Here goes TMI- Im almost 8 months pregnant so we're not having sex. He has a thing about poking the baby and I just dont feel attractive. So I don't like it, but I guess he has needs so I try to curbe the jealous feelings. What isn't okay for me is if he would rather watch porn and pleasure himself rather than be intimate with me. Like if he finds a movie and his hand more enjoying than being with me thats a problem.