I think I'm naturally rather paranoid, so a wild fling with lots of sex probably isn't in my immediate future. But I like the IDEA of it.
Most of my coworkers are guys, and they've qualified their recommendations with "that's the guy answer," or "that's what I did."
I do hope my trust didn't get shattered too badly in the process, but I am going to be very careful with this heart for awhile. And I'm young. I have plenty of time. I'm just glad to hear that even though I figured my marriage was an anomaly, it wasn't the norm by a long shot.