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Old 03-13-2010, 06:50 AM
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Originally Posted by MaryGoRound View Post
O boy and since I've been so strong in my convictions..Xabf doesn't like that very much.
He wrote to me saying "I should accept him as he is and he's always been or just forget it." LOL. okay. Its so transparent! He feels me gaining control of my boundaries..so he needs to gain control. He knows I care so he's using that as leverage. Well go ahead and watch me forget it! He was all like "if you can't see me or speak to me..then don't even write." Haha! He's so right! I felt a twinge of anger and hurt, but I know that its just a sick way of trying to get me to falter! And falter I will not sistas!

This was taken from my own life...

My boyfriend does this dance as well. I call it "his deflated ego trip"
I'm trying SO HARD to detach from this behaviour of his and feel sorry he's so stunted!
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