Originally Posted by
suki44883 
Yeah, but the thing is...you don't need to be explaining yourself and your actions. That just keeps the dance going. In all likelihood, he's not going to break up with you. He's going to keep doing what he's doing, waiting for YOU to break up with HIM. That way, he'll have an excuse to drink himself into oblivion and try to make you think it's all your fault.
<<<bang>>>> <----that was this comment hitting me in the head! haha
YES YES YES, I used to keep the dance going by explaining myself and just recently, I stopped explaining myself. It's POINTLESS!
It's like trying to reason with a 3 yr old.
My boyfriend has never left me, it was me always leaving. He waits for me to leave so he can comfortably fit into his martyr role.