Well, today my husband has called his pyschiatrist and he has also called chemical dependency clinic and he is waiting for a call from them to get him a rehab. He said today that he knows he is an addict and he wants help. I for the first time in a while feel like I am in control of me. I told my husband that he needs to take care of his problem I will be him to support him but I can't tell him what to do or do it for him. If he wants the help he is gonna have to do what he needs to do to get it.. You and others in this community have been such a big help to me and thank you for all your advice. I am in hopes that my husband is gonna get the help he needs, I know I am going to get the help I need.