Thanks for your thoughts and I know you are right. I am scared, I do hope that putting our relationship first is stronger than he need to be on pills. I was glad that his doctor finally knows that these pills are a problem, which he obviously didn't know before because he kept prescribing them to him. I have told him that now that he has been honest with his doctor we will take his advice and go to pain management and to a neurosurgeon. I have also told him that I am here to support him and get through this but, I am not tolerating any more of him taking pills. The doctor told him if he feels he can't through the withdrawals that he is going through than he can go to the er and they will send him to detox, if that is that what he needs. I am taking one day at a time.