How to get over the love? Anger!
Anger is a great love killer.
When I was getting over an ex, who did horrible things to me, I was sick for a while while he still went about his business.
I got angry, angry at him and mostly at myself for being such a schelpp and allowing another to control my life.
I picked up my boot straps and took control back. I took my life back. Wondering and asking questions as to why this or that will make you really ill.
Get angry is all I have to say. Being a victim keeps you sad and sadness is not the right recipe for healing.