long story short he left me and came back 3 hours later which made me angry becausee i told him if he was going to leave me, he had to "own it" and live with it. so he was telling me that i kicked him out etc...which isn't true.
Blame-shifting. BOTH of you.
i have issues letting go- i know - and i probably shoudn't have tried to him, but we have absolutely no communication, and i really needed to get something off my chest...so i tried....it was unsuccessful and ending the same as it always does - my bad...i should have known
Excuses.
but it also gave me some info i needed about his drinking.
Continued focus on the other person and no focus on self.
What do YOU want in and for your life?