Hi Jay
your story is is just like mine (and many others it seems!) it is so nice to see older members and new ones alike interacting - none of my friends or family think I or my partner have a problem either probably because we drink about as much as them, we get drunk but not pass out/blackout drunk - our problem is we say we won't drink but end up doing it anyway and the way I think about it is if you can't keep a promise to yourself about something it must be a problem. Anyway best of luck!