............hope you all don't mind a little story from the other side...
I met a man who invited me for dates a few times, he would invariably be late..then he would want a couple of quick beers to relax from his day. After that he would ask me to drive because he had had a coupla and had a prestigious career to protect....a couple blocks down the road he would ask me if I would mind going in the store and picking him up a 6 pack since he had bought one "last week" and he had that career....LOL..
one day I threw something in his trash can, I was in the kitchen, he was nearby in the LR..I have no idea what I was doing but for some reason needed to retrieve something I had thrown away or etc, who knows...he heard the trash rattling and came in in a panic demanding to know what I was doing? WTH?
Yeah, I figured it out pretty quickly. LOL