That is verbal and emotional abuse and it wont get better just because he stops drinking IF he does.
You might want to read up on it in the stickies.
Good grief, we don't allow our children to act like that and make excuses or look for reasons..we put a stop to it, don't we? We let them know that is NOT acceptable.
You do not deserve ANY of the mean things he has said.
I am so glad you will be taking care of yourself!
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