Thank you to all of you who responded - as always knowing I am not alone in all this helps. For those who wondered, I am 27 weeks pregnancy due May 11. I am home on bed rest and monitored from home on a terb pump. Baby is safe....and healthy and hopefully staying put. And as for AH, well me being out of the loop for 3 days seems to have made him at least have a little appreciation for what I do....