I did the letter too. It wasn't even acknowledged, mentioned or anything. Not even once and that was over a year ago. I left it for him and thought maybe THAT route would sink in.
You think, I'm a good writer...It'll be right there in front of his face in writing! And also its a very gentle way to be direct and assertive. A great tool. A great approach.
And it is. But the normal rules of relationships don't apply. With A's there are no rules.
Keep coming here Jennabe...Because as much you feel we're your outlet..you are also ours. Thanks for posting.