I don't mean to sound mean or harsh but I would say she is 23 years old, time for you to let her spread her own wings and time for you ALL to stop clipping them and let her learn how to fly on her own.
She's going to keep on falling as long as someone is their keeping them trimmed for her as that is what is comfortable for her.
We as humans have a 'need' to survive and a will. You've done a great job and taught her the skills she needs, have faith in that. Don't pay her rent, let her figure it out on her own. She will if she has to or she will work something out.
Like Amy I was a user as well, and we have more survival skills than you Mom's have any clue of, we just don't want you to know, and we don't even usually know until you make us figure it out.
She'll thank you for making her do this eventually.
JMO. Glad you were able to post.
Others will be along soon with their ES,H
