nlynn, neither of my children speak to me. My ex doesn't speak to me. My friends do not speak to me. I haven't done anything to be treated like this. I was always present for everyone, whatever the situation, no questions asked.
I grew up abandoned and abused, and I walked right back into the same situation. I gave everything to my kids. All my time and energy was devoted to their education and well-being. I feel completely betrayed.
Sugah, I did read The Color Purple twice. I love the book, and the film was wonderful, too.