betterday,
I know I came across as harsh in my first post to you, and I am sorry for being short with you.
You are a caring person concerned with loving and protecting and forgiving.
However, you appear to have been with somebody who is:
a drug user and dealer
a child - in age and mentality
an unfaithful boyfriend who is about to become a father
someone who doesn't appreciate you and your gifts
His family won't thank you because you have just opened up a big, ugly box of the truth to them and now they have to deal with what they have probably feared for some time. You will be cast as the bitter ex-girlfriend.
Wouldn't it be nice and peaceful if these people were out of your life so you can have some nice, pleasant days for a change?
I wish you the best.