When dealing with benzos, I'd consult a doc. Of course, that means being open with them about what you're trying to do (taper - quit), which leads to more questions. If you're ready to get honest, good things will happen...but not necessarily on your terms.
I was there, esp. w/ opiods and benzos. Then I switched to alcohol. Couple years later, I've got a new problem. But it's possible! And you have the right mindset, realizing something's not right. Keep at it.